If you want to learn about fertility, womens' health, and treatments from doctors, nurses and friends with personal experience, join that OB/GYN Lounge.
If you want to speak out with total anonymity, you can either use the forum at http://www.jbni.us/forum or just make a post with limited permissions set for only friends or family.
Brief description: Learn about birth, women's health, reproduction issues, and fertility